Thank you for considering the Cathedral Basilica of Saint Joseph for your wedding.
For all couples who have postponed their wedding because of Coronovirus – 19 we have many dates available to allow you to reschedule your sacrament. Please call Anai Torres at (408)283-8100 x2204 or email her at firstname.lastname@example.org. We are happy to work with you during this time to make your wedding a day of happiness and love.
The following information below covers our basic wedding guideline and policy. For the full wedding policy in English click Current Wedding policy for the full wedding policy in Spanish click Spanish wedding policy BODAS Poliza
Please contact Anai Torres, at 408/283-8100 ext. 2204 for further information and/or when you are ready to make your reservation.
*The Day of Recollection for Engaged Couples is the equivalent of the Marriage Preparation prerequisite to engaged couples receiving the Sacrament of Marriage. Call Anai Torres at (408)283-8100 x2204 to inquire or register. This does not fulfill the Diocese of San Jose’s Natural Family Planning Requirement.
*The Wedding Information Night is a prerequisite for engaged couples with their marriage taking place at the Cathedral Basilica of St. Joseph. Call Anai Torres (408)283-8100 x2204 to register.
Wedding dates are scheduled on Saturdays, at 10:00 a.m., 12:00 p.m., 2:30 p.m. and 6:00 p.m. as well as Friday and Sunday (at 3:00 p.m. only).
Some conditions apply to Sunday weddings.
Each wedding is allotted a 2-hour time slot, which allows for seating of guests, the ceremony and pictures.
For example if your wedding is scheduled for 10:00 a.m., your time will begin at 9:30 a.m. and end at 11:30 a.m.
The donation cost for the use of the Cathedral is $1750.00.00 for parishioners and $1750.00.00 for couples from other parishes. A parishioner is a person who is registered or lives within parish boundaries and has a history of support and participation. A special discount is given for 10:00 a.m. Saturday weddings.
Musicians and a ceremony coordinator are included in the Cathedral fee.
A $300.00 non-refundable deposit is required to be paid within two weeks of the reservation approval and the balance is due 8 weeks prior to the date of the wedding. Additional fees may apply for holiday weddings.
The Cathedral requires that you schedule an initial visit with one of our priests regardless of who is presiding or preparing you.
If you are not a parishioner of the Cathedral we encourage you to consult a priest from your own parish about his availability to preside over your ceremony and prepare you for the Sacrament. Your priest needs to verify that both of you are free to marry in the Catholic Church and you must allow at least 6 months for preparation prior to your wedding. Your priest will receive written confirmation from us following the $300.00 non-refundable deposit.
A marriage preparation retreat and Natural Family Planning class are required for couples preparing for marriage.
The Cathedral Basilica offers a one-day retreat 3 times per year, for more information call Anai Torres at 408/283-8100 ext.2204 during the business week Monday through Friday 9:30am to 5:00pm.
Your priest will advise you of any other activities that may be required and their fees.
All documentation that substantiates the completion of marriage preparation must be submitted to your priest. Your priest will need to submit all your paperwork no less than 6 weeks prior to your wedding.
Our music director will be your consultant regarding musicians and music selections and will also cantor for your ceremony.
A Cathedral organist is provided. Should you wish to contract additional liturgical musicians, we recommend budgeting approximately $250.00 for each. It is required that our music director meet with you to approve the selections, provide technical information to your musicians and be present at your ceremony to help things run smoothly. You may also visit the Cathedral web site for more information about wedding music selections and materials for your convenience.
Pop music is not appropriate during the ceremony, but can be used during the prelude and the wedding party and bridal entrance and exit.
The Cathedral’s arrangement will remain in place behind the Bishop’s seat and cannot be moved. These arrangements reflect the liturgical season.
Please make your own floral arrangement
You may select your own photographer and videographer however they must follow the guidelines of the Cathedral. They must complete and sign the Photographer and Videographer Guideline and Agreement.
The ceremony coordinator will contact you 6 weeks prior to your wedding date to arrange the details of your ceremony, conduct your wedding rehearsal and assist on your wedding day.